Est. 2011 · Written by Lena Castles Maui, Hawaiʻi → Southern California

A David Story

Love · Life · Death · Hereafter

Every story about Dave

The story book

Life with Dave, losing Dave, and finding him again. All the stories, newest first.

Santa Who?

Family · December 25, 2013

Even when I was a kid, it was never about what I got for Christmas that mattered.  More so today because I know that there are…

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Farewell Grampy

Family · December 24, 2012

“How do you spell xylophone?” a young Dave asked his dad. “Look it up!” was his dad’s reply. Dave pulled out the dictionary and did just…

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Thanksgiving Grief

Family · November 22, 2012

  In coming up with the idea for this post, I thought, maybe it’s not a good idea.  Maybe it’s just too sad for the holidays.…

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Birthday Bear

Family · October 14, 2012

I did not want Sierra to be born on October 13th because it happened to be on a Friday that year. Friday the 13th was a…

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In Memory of Daryl Yamamoto

Hereafter Life With Dave · September 7, 2012

“The best portion of a good man’s life – his little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love.” ~William Wordsworth Today, September 7, 2012, is the…

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The Day We Lost Dave

The Loss · August 11, 2012

What do I tell Sierra?  How do I explain to my five year old daughter that her daddy won’t be coming home? That was my first…

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Daddy’s Daughter

Life With Dave · July 26, 2012

Something Sierra said and did the other night gave me this idea for a blog post.  It also reminded me how much of a goofball Dave…

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Remembering Daddy

Family · June 16, 2012

I’m used to planning everything out and many were surprised that I had decided to wait to find out if we were having a boy or…

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The Gift of Soccer

Soccer · May 30, 2012

Back in 2005, Dave, Sierra and I were driving by Kalama Park in Kihei, Maui where little kids were playing soccer. “I want to play soccer.”…

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